To guys, they would define "nice girls" as girls who gives them personal space and constantly contact them even in the middle of the night. Most guys aren't into relationships, and those who are in are usually in casual ones. They like to balance their free time with their girlfriends and for themselves. Same to girls, however, they define "nice guys" as a guys who have a gentlemen-manner. They would most likely say "I want a boyfriend who would comfort me and would always be there for me" and loves the attention to given to them by their boyfriends. What both guys and girls want are good behavior (nice personality), and trust. What "nice girls" and "nice boys" just don't do is something that can end the relationships like cheating with some other guy/girl or talk rudely about them behind their back.
I would say the consequences for breaking their "rules" that they agreed upon, are either a break up or simply mistrust with each other. For break ups, it could be harder for girls than guys because most take relationships seriously (not all) while for few guys can take break ups hard if they were actually serious and was very committed to the relationship. As for mistrust, I think can easily switched to a break up, but I don't think relationships last long if the both the girl and guy doesn't trust with one another. To constantly worry about each other's actions behind their back and misunderstand them just because they are near the opposite gender is something no one wants to be in.
Where do the rules come from? It's usually what the couple decide. Their rules are what sets them together, and any broken sets them apart. I would say among them are what I mainly pointed out: trust with one another. No trust, no (long lasting) relationship. All these things I been talking about are pretty much common knowledge.
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